Security Factor

Every girl loves feel to protected. Knowing she has a big strong guy next to her makes her feel more secure than anything else possible. Someone who can defend her at any cost is something that only a guy can offer. But being secure and being locked up is different. There are plenty of creeps out there, its the way of life. There are people to be scared of and others who mean no harm. The distinction isn't always clear but you can tell most of the time. No the way a guy sees it, completely different. Any person, guy or girl, who looks in the general direction of you is a creep and is therefore automatically considered to be a competition. Not true. If the guy you are dating has a sweet tooth for fighting because he thinks that one guy walking down the street is going to capture your eye and sweep you off your feet there is a problem. That's not considered being secure and protective, that's the definition of insecurity and a quality not to have in a man. A glance from some random person won't take you from him, but him being persistent with antagonizing questions will. In a relationship honesty will keep it together, if he thinks that your lying to him and always looking at other guys to replace him, then theres nothing wrong with your relationship there's something wrong with him. No girl can fix an insecurity problem, they have to fix it on there own. Asking the same questions won't get rid of the problem and girls.. don't try to make excuses for them, that will only make the problem worse. Only advice lay it on the line . Be honest. And if that doesn't work , then you know what to do.